I have been asked many unanswerable questions such as:
"What does he/she think of me?""How does she/he feel about the letter I wrote?""When will he/she call me?""Why does she/he not understand __________ (what I am trying to say) ?""Does he/she love me?""Why did he/she say that?"
The reasons I name these questions as unanswerable are many. First, at any given moment, a person may feel angry toward you, and then in five minutes, remember all the kindness you have done and feel loving toward you. Trying to accurately report another persons thoughts or feelings about a particular situation is very difficult.
Further, there is no real power to be had in the answer, no peace. The better question, the better way to get your needs met, i…