Show Me the Outcome of Continuing • A Question That Reveals the Future
I realize that I need to offer a more complete explanation of one of the best ways to use a question suggested on my website. I have suggested, particularly for love readings that the best way to see the future of that relationship is to say “Show me the outcome of continuing my relationship with__________.” I have suggested that asking “Does he/she love me?”, “Is he/she cheating?”, “Is he/she the best one for me? are all questions that will not yield a solid answer. There are two reasons for this. The first reason a “Does he/she” question is not really helpful is that it requires your reader to make value judgments for you. For example: Your parter, let’s call her Alice, may truly believe that she loves you, Romeo. However, the love Alice expresses may not feel like love to you, Romeo, at all! You may feel insecure, controlled, teased, played, unsettled or manipulated even though Alice keeps reassuring you that she loves you. It is far better to s...